IT IS MORE THAN WHAT YOU THINK IT IS (series 3)

SEX IS NOT FUN; FUN IS NOT SEX

Hello!
You are welcome to another edition of this series of sexuality issue where we are tracing the Genesis and purpose of sex. I believe you were able to comprehend our last topic of discussion, and if you miss it you can check the last post. This week, we will be considering an issue some sycophant has used to lure some minors into having sex because of their ignorance.

Many lives have been destroyed all in a bid to enjoy fun, mythical people have been made to believe that the peak of fun is attain in sex, hence they synonymously refer to sex as fun, by this uninformed people search for fun in a wrong place. The fun you are made to believe sex gives is just a mirage and deception from the society you find yourself, most especially the entertainment industries like HOLLYHOOD, NOLLYHOOD and the GHOLLYHOOD.

Sex is not for fun and it's not anywhere near fun. It cannot be fun without the responsibility of legal marriage. Wait a minute, what is fun? Fun is enjoyable activities that bring amusement without any negative consequence or fear. Fun is what you do and afterward you feel good about it without regret or worrying about the aftermath; fun is more enjoyable among group of friends and it is often done openly without hiding or being ashamed of anything, rather the fulfillment and happiness it comes with makes you to be eager to show and tell others about your happy moment; while sex is the very opposite of such; no sane fellow dare have sex in the open, in a group or with family members, most people mourn, scream and tear during sexual activities. Don’t be deceived, fun cannot be enjoyed in the dark or behind a close door.

There is nothing really enjoyable about illicit sex, neither do you feel good after sexual activities, you only feel exhausted and dirty, of course the negative consequences are simply uncountable. It's a pity that too many people have completely lost their senses and their thinking has become irrational. Otherwise, no one would say or pretend that illicit sex is fun. Sex was never meant to be for fun and can never be enjoyed outside its original program. Actors and actresses will only try to make it look like fun but it can never be. If the illicit sex is fun, then it's also fun to have sex with your parent in a public place and let the picture go viral, in case that startle you then sex is not fun.

Sex is a responsibility, and the only way you can find fun in it is when you’re ready to be responsible for the consequence of it, and when you do it in accordance and obedience of its original purpose. You just have to play by the rules, and what’s the rule? It is simple, (mature male and female married to each other having sex for procreation and recreation purpose).  Aside this, you are simply killing yourself for nothing. I sincerely don't know you, but I really do not see the fun in killing one’s self.
The earlier you begin to realize that sex is not fun neither is it meant for fun, the better your life will be, because if you can guard against illicit sex , you will find it very easy to sail through life and make the most out of it. It's a shameful thing that many young people today have been deceived into sex relationship thinking there is some kind of fun in it, not knowing they are only preparing for a lifetime of regret and unhealed injury. If you are one of such young people who have fallen victim of such deceit of sex being fun, you had better start tracing your steps back before you totally complete your own doom.

If you are looking for fun as an unmarried person sex is not the right place to look at because you won't find it there. What you will find instead will leave you with lifetime regrets and incurable injury. Sex is a responsibility meant for s specific assignment of procreation and recreation of the married. Go have fun with your dad, mum, siblings, cousins and friends. You can go to the cinema, beach, amusement park, tourist center or zoo. I bet you will always want to share your experience with others and show them the pictures of the event; while it will be too shameful to share the picture of your sexual activities on social media. But if you insist sex is fun, go have it with your dad or mum and share the pictures on Facebook, after all you are just catching!

If sex is not fun then is sex evil? This we shall examine next time God willing. But before I say goodbye today, please make this confession: I WILL NOT RUIN MY DESTINY WITH SEXUAL IMMORALITY. Say the prayer and not just Amen.

Cheers!